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Thursday, September 23, 2010

Got into Disneyland and immediately went to Splash mountain. Was sitting in the boat ready to go and the ride broke down. Next we went to the haunted mansion. It is fled with Halloween decore. Next we went to thunder mountain, while in line, this ride also broke down. Then we went to pirates of the Caribbean. Mac Narrow now resides there. We are currently standing in the Matahorn line. All lines are moving Quincy, especially if they are closed.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

My Relief Society Lesson about the Spirit.

Recognizing the Spirit-“What does it feel like”

Story by Aaron Lee Shill-New Era Oct. 1995

Here I am, I thought, three months away from my mission and I don’t even know how to feel the Spirit.

The truth was that I had been a member of the Church for my entire life, and I could never recall a time when I was certain that I had felt the Spirit. I had a firm testimony of the Savior and the prophet, but somehow I didn’t know what the Spirit felt like.

So there I sat in Brother Durrant’s missionary preparation class, as confused as ever. “It’s the Spirit that counts,” he quoted President Benson. Brother Durrant than began to speak of great missionaries like Alma and Ammon, who were successful in their work because they followed the Spirit.

How can I be a great missionary? I thought. I don’t even understand the Spirit. I continued to listen intently, desperately hoping that Brother Durrant could answer my question. I silently prayed that he could relate to me just one important piece of wisdom-how the Spirit felt.

Then my answer came, and not just from the teacher. It didn’t come like an electric shock, and it didn’t come like fire. But my answer did come, with its own gentle feeling only the Lord was capable of giving me. It came when my teacher stopped speaking about Alma and said softly, “I feel the Spirit so much. It makes me so happy. That’s when I know I feel the Spirit, when I’m happy and I know God loves me.”

As I thought about those simple words, I felt all of the confusion settle into a sense of understanding. My chest didn’t roar with fire and vigor, and my limbs didn’t sink without strength. Instead, I felt a clam peace inside, and I realized that whenever I had felt warm inside while singing a hymn in church, I had felt the Spirit. Whenever I felt good after a service project, I had felt the Spirit. And when I had walked out of a Church class feeling peaceful and happy, I had felt the Spirit. The feelings that I was searching for were often there, but I just didn’t know what they were. I had expected the Lord to present to me, in grand spectacle, an instant testimony of his power. Instead, he was gently guiding me to find out for myself.

I have learned that I must make an effort to understand the Spirit and invent that influence into my life. Now, whenever I read the stories of Alma the Younger or King Lamoni, I no longer doubt the power that influenced them. Although I have never felt the dramatic spiritual transformation that Alma did, I now know that the Spirit manifests itself in many different facets and that the Lord communicates with his children in various ways. Then feelings of the Spirit are always there if I am trying to live worthily and if I truly seek them.

In order to feel the Spirit we need to provide the proper environment. How do we provide an environment so the Spirit can reach us?

A consistently serene atmosphere is essential for teaching spiritual things. Because the Spirit speaks in “a still small voice”, it is difficult to discern spiritual feelings amid commotion, especially contention. We parents need to start with ourselves in this matter. By repentance and faith we should strive always to be peacemakers in our families. We should speak softly and respectfully, express love and appreciation, apologize and forgive readily, and be cheerful. Success in these efforts may not come quickly, but home is the perfect place for practicing a better way again and again. Success will come more easily if we rid our homes of worldly influences, including television programs, videos, music and reading materials that offend the Lord’s Spirit.

Once you are prepared to feel the Spirit, you must learn to observe what the Spirit actually feels like. Tell me what the Spirit might feel like?

Revelation is spiritual in nature rather than physical. We can only understand the things of the Spirit by communication with our spirit. The Prophet Joseph Smith explained: “All things whatsoever God in his infinite wisdom has seen fit and proper to reveal to us, while we are dwelling in mortality are…are revealed to our spirits precisely as though we had no bodies at all; and those revelations which will save our spirits will save our bodies.

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The scriptures and the prophets teach what this constant companionship feels like. The Lord tells us, “I will tell you in your mind and in your heart, by the Holy Ghost, which shall come upon you and which shall dwell in your heart. Enos stated, “While I was …struggling in the spirit, behold, the voice of the Lord came into my mind.” Joseph Smith said, “When you feel pure intelligence flowing into you, it may give you sudden strokes of ideas. President Henry B. Eyring described the influence of the Holy Ghost as peace, hope, and joy.

Promptings to the Mind

The Scriptures indicate that manifestations of the Spirit come to the mind in a variety of ways. They come as enlightenment, just as scriptures seem to be illuminated with understanding. They may come in the form of instant recall of things or as a clear, audible voice. Sometimes they come by way of counsel from leaders. They come in dreams, visions, and visitations.

Enlightenment. This enlightenment comes as an increase in light, knowledge, and understanding. The Savior instructed Oliver Cowdery, “I did enlighten thy mind; and now I tell thee these things that thou mayest know that thou hast been enlightened by the Spirit of truth”. (D&C 6:15)

Light and understanding. Joseph Smith and Sidney Rigdon spoke of the vision given to them with these words: “By the power of the Spirit our eyes were opened and our understandings were enlightened, so as to see and understand the things of God” (D&C 76:12). “And while we meditated upon these things, the Lord touched the eyes of our understandings and they were opened” (D&C 76:19)

Prophets, seers, and revelators have described this process of receiving personal revelation through the enlightenment of the mind:

When you feel pure intelligence flowing into you,” said the Prophet Joseph Smith, “It may give you sudden strokes of ideas, so that by noticing it, you may find it fulfilled the same day or soon; (i.e.) those things that were presented into your minds by the Spirit of God, will come to pass; and this by learning the Spirit of God were presented unto your minds by the Spirit of God, will come to pass; and this by learning the Spirit of God and understanding it, you may grow into the principle of revelation, until you become perfect in Christ Jesus.

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President Ezra Taft Benson has said: “We hear the words of the Lord most often by a feeling. If we are humble and sensitive, the Lord will prompt us most often through our feelings. That is why spiritual promptings move us on occasion to great joy, sometimes to tears. Such a feeling may be compassion for someone in need, willingness to obey parents or leaders, a prompting to forgive, a desire to make things right when we have wronged someone, or a feeling of gratitude. These spiritual feelings grow clearer and more intense as we become increasingly true to the sense of right and wrong that the Lord has placed in our hearts.

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The Holy Ghost causes our feelings to be more tender. We feel more charitable and compassionate with each other. We are more calm in our relationships. We have a greater capacity to love each other. People want to be around us because our very countenances radiate the influence of the Spirit. We are more godly in our character. As a result, we are more sensitive to the promptings of the Holy Ghost and this able to comprehend spiritual things.
---President Ezra Taft Benson

Promptings to the Heart

The Spirit reveals the will of the Lord through the feelings of the heart. We must be in tune with the Spirit and in touch with these feelings. Nephi spoke of the need to have a receptive heart to receive revelations. When he spoke to Laman and Lemuel, he reminded them that an angel had spoken to them: “He hath spoken unto you in a still small voice, but ye were past feeling, that ye could not feel his words” (1 Ne. 17:45)

These feelings may be characterized as peaceful, warm, compelling, or dark or confusing in nature. They will always come in response to sincere, heartfelt prayer if we are prepared to receive them.

Peaceful feelings. Then most frequent confirmation of the Spirit comes to us as peaceful feelings. The Spirit indeed “showeth all things, and teacheth the peaceable things of the kingdom” (D&C 39:6; see also D&C 36:2; D&C 42:61; D&C 111:8)

President Brigham Young quoted these words of the Prophet Joseph Smith: “They can tell the Spirit of the Lord from all other spirits-it will whisper peace and joy to their souls.

Feelings of peace are promptings and proof that the Spirit is bearing witness to us in response to our petitions. The Lord said to Oliver Cowdery through the Prophet Joseph Smith: “did I not speak peace to your mind condcerningh the matter? What greater witness can you have than from God?” (D&C 6:23

Warm, spiritual feeling. The Lord has given us specific instruction that if you ask if something is right and it is right, He will “cause that your bosom shall burn within you; therefore, you shall feel that it is right”. (D&C 9:8)

Mormon described this feeling that came to the Nephites when a small voice spoke to them. He said, “It did piece them to the very soul, and did cause their hearts to burn” (3 Ne. 11:3)

Compelling feeling. A compelling feeling is a pressing feeling. It is characterized by a sense of urgency, a sense of restlessness, and a sense of surety. It was the feeling that Nephi experienced when he was commanded to slay Laban (1 Ne 4:10)

The Prophet Joseph Smith described this feeling when he spoke concerning the principle of baptism for the dead: “That subject seems to occupy my mind, and press itself upon my feelings the strongest” (D&C 128:1).

Dark and confused feeling. When we petition Heavenly Father in prayer, there are times in which He answers us with distinct impression that we have not identified the proper course. The answer will come not as one of peace but as a feeling of darkness. He has counseled that when you ask about something, “If it be not right you shall have no such feelings, but you shall have a stupor of thought that shall cause you to forget the thing which is wrong” (D&C 9:9)

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The voice of the Spirit is described in the scriptures as being neither loud nor harsh, not a voice of thunder, neither a voice of great tumultuous noise, but rather as still and small, of perfect mindness, as if it had been a whisper, and it can pierce even the very soul and cause the heart to burn.

The Spirit does not get our attention by shouting. It never shakes us with a heavy hand. The spirit whispers. It caresses so gently indeed, that if we are preoccupied, we can’t feel it at all.

Occasionally, the Spirit will press just firmly enough or often enough for us to pay attention; but from my experience, most of the time, if we do not heed the gentle feeling, if we do not listen with those feelings, the Spirit will withdraw and wait until we come seeking and listening, in our manner or our expression
---President Boyd K. Packer


If your success ratio for recognizing the Spirit is low, ask yourself these questions:

1. How well am I living the commandments?
2. Am I studying the scriptures in order that I might be more attuned to Spiritual things?
3. Am I praying with real intent?
4. Have I done my homework, and gone to the Lord with a well-thought-out solution?
5. Have I learned to recognize a stupor of thought?
6. Can I honestly say “thy will be done” and am I willing to take no for an answer?

Ending Story by Ezra Taft Benson

My wife’s mother, Barbara Smith Amussen, was an officiator in the Logan Temple for twenty years and a widow for forty years. She was a woman without guile. I loved her so much that I spent a lot of time with her because she was a widow and there was no priesthood bearer in the home.

This choice woman knew the exact time she was to depart mortal life. Her husband, a Danish convert and Utah’s first pioneer jeweler and watch maker, Carl Chirstian Amussen, appeared to her either in a dream or a vision. She admitted, “I’m not sure which, but it was so real it seemed that he was right in the room. He said he had come to tell me that my time in mortal life was ending and that on the following Thursday (it was then Friday), I would be expected to leave mortal life.”

Her oldest daughter, Mabel said, “Oh Mother, you’ve been worrying about something. You’ve not been feeling well.”

Her mother replied, “Everything’s fine. I feel wonderful. There’s nothing to worry about. I just know I’ll be leaving next Thursday.”

Then she said, “Mabel, when the time comes, I’d like to pass away in your home in the upper room where I used to sit and tell the boys Book of Mormon and Church history stories when they were little fellows.”

As the time drew near, she attended fast meeting in her ward. She bore her testimony, and the bishop said she talked as though she were going on a long journey”.

“he was bidding us all good-bye,” said the bishop, “expressing her love for us and the joy that had been hers working in the temple”) which was just a few meters away from the chapel). And then she bore a fervent testimony.

As the days passed, she went to the bank, drew out her small savings, paid all her bills, and went to the mortuary and picked out her casket. Then she had the water and electrical power turned off in her home and went to Mabel’s home. The day before she died, her son came to visit her. They sat by the bed and help hands and talked.

On the day of my mother-in-law’s death, Mabel came into the room where was resting on the bed. Her mother said, “Mabel, I feel a bit sleepy. Do not disturb me if I sleep until evening.”

Those were the last words, and she peacefully passed from this life to the next.

Then President Benson went on to say:
Spirituality-being in tune with the Spirit of the Lord-is the greatest need we all have. We should strive for the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost all the days of our lives. When we have the Spirit, we will love to serve, we will love the Lord, and we will love those whom we serve with and those whom we serve.

Bare testimony.

Monday, July 26, 2010

Boating with the Grandkids

While out motor boating (as Jade and Seann call it) with the kids, I mentioned that we needed to turn on some tunes. Jade said, "Ya Grandma, we need some toons." I replied, "Do you know what tunes are?" "Yes" Jade said, "They are cartoons!" I giggled and told her that it was music. She then said, "Well, we need some tunes!" About an hour later the music had been turned off and we forgot about it. Seann came up to me and said, "Grandma, Grandma, we need some more tunes! Love those little guys, they are such great fun. They even rode in the tubes all by themselves. They didn't want anyone with them.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Coming home

So we have decided to not stay in Washington. We have decided to come home at the end of my training so that we can have our family support from our families for when the baby gets her.

Friday, June 18, 2010


I harvested quite a bit of swiss chard and spinach from our garden today. That was quite exciting. I enjoy sitting out there and watching the garden grow.

Monday, June 7, 2010

So this project began with a leaking ceiling it turned into painting and changing lights, here are before and afters
There will be others on the way please be patient as I start or finish a project I will try to post a pic or two, tell us what you think of what you see, the pics that are over lapped on are just trash there isn't anything special in it

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Brandon and Elysha

9218 57th Ave SW
Apt B305
Lakewood, Wa 98499

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Memorial Weekend in St. George

Breakfast at Tiffany's

Resting on our snow canyon Hike to the 3 ponds.

Our hiking friend




The cutie pies

Emily and Quincy

Grandpa and trouble

Here's trouble.

Quincy and Jade

Reacher and Mommy

We're going in!

Jader Bug

Cute Seann

New Carpet

New paint and carpet makes a huge difference.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Life's Blessings

I have been sitting here this morning being grateful for my blessings, one of which will be that dad and I will be able to finally refinance our home in August. As you all know, dad and I have had years of very difficult financial times. It has not been easy for us but we have survived the challenges thrown at us. I wanted to share some of the things that we have done through these lean and difficult years that have helped us survive and gotten us to this point.

We always paid our tithing. We always paid fast offerings. I have shared with most of you the story of Grandpa Fowler and fast offerings and we have heard a lot of talks about fast offerings. We decided to put paying fast offerings to the test. We had heard that paying fast offerings should be a sacrifice but not a burden. When we first got married we were paying $10 a month for fast offerings. As you kids came along we paid $50.00 a month. Some where along the line we started paying $150 a month and last December we upped it to $250.00, a sacrifice….yes. A burden….NO. Blessings….Yes. We have been guided and directed along the way for the last 6 months on how to repair our credit score and are now in a position to be able to refinance soon and be on our way to financial recovery. Has it been easy….no. Will it be worth it….Yes!!! I believe by paying fast offerings we also have the ability to choose between wants and needs and the desire to go out and spend money needlessly is curbed. We have the ability to think things through, plan and not do a lot of impulse buying. We have more control over our money and it has less control over us.

I am very grateful for the opportunity of paying tithing and fast offerings and the blessings we receive from being obedient to what the Lord has asked us to do.

Dad and I also try to go to the temple at least 2 times a month and sometimes 4. I am finally starting to enjoy going every week and it does not seem like a sacrifice, it feels like a privilege. Going to the temple gives us great peace and helps us to make better decisions in our lives and blesses us. Each time we go, I make sure that I put everyone of your names on the prayer roll. That includes Charlie, Amber, Elysha and Emily. I know that life can be a real challenge. I know that Heavenly Father loves each one of you and he will bless you in your lives. If you want to make things better in your lives, you will reach out to him and pick one thing that he has asked you to do and turn into a habit of love. You will gain blessings from it.

I am proud of each one of you and love you all very much. I looked forward to the opportunities dad and I will have to spend with each of you in the coming months. Keep doing your best. You are all wonderful people in your own way and you have so much to offer the world and your families. Charlie and Sidney you are doing a great job raising those three children and we are proud of you and love the kids very much. They are awesome. To Brandon and Elysha, Brad and Amber, Quincy and Emily….when the time is right….we will be so excited to get to know your children and love them as we do the other 3 grandchildren. We are such a blessed family. I love all of you so much and know how much your experiences in life are helping you to grow mentally and spiritually.

Brad and Amber, I am really looking forward to seeing you in Aug. and am very excited about you moving to California so you are closer. What an experience you both will be having. Wish you well as you prepare for some new adventures.

Love you all. Mom.

Sunday, May 2, 2010


If any of ya'll are interested, I've posted pics on facebook of various areas here. It's easier to post them on facebook due to the slow and limited upload here on the blog. We went to the aquarium, the zoo and the beach at point defiance.

Friday, April 30, 2010

Adult Relationships

One of the things I have talked about is developing an adult relationship with our siblings. This is one thing that I have not done with my brother Paul. (don't anyone tell him I said that!). Here is what I have suggested, you first begin by developing an Adult relationship with your parents, then work on expanding that to your Spouse, then your siblings. You do not have to have an adult relationship with non adults in the family. It is Ok to act like a kid when you are around kids, just don't be an example of what not to do!

Here is a short list of behaviors that I think are included in Adult relationships:
You will treat everyone with:

Respect, their time, their thoughts and their property
Compassion, what they think and how they feel
Only express YOUR opinion when asked, or if it is appropriate
Do not MANIPULATE anyone! (this especially applies to kids)
show CHARITY, that is Love everytime you talk to someone.
take the time to listen to others who have a need.

This is a short list, and can go on and on.

Set your own stardards of behavior, then judge every encounter you have by that standard. You should ask yourself the question after every encounter where you think that the other person was not treated as he should have been. Was my behavior the best it could have been, and was I true to my own behavior standards?

"Life was made to have fun and be enjoyable, only you can make that come true!"

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Grow Boxes

We have some strawberries coming up. Radishes, onions, garlic also growing, and I saw a lettuce coming up the other day. Soon it will be time to plant some more. It will be fun to have our own garden growing, I just hope it all works well.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Square foot gardening with mom and dad

Now you may think that dad did all the work on this little project, but I assure you...he did not! I bought some boards and had Lowe's cut them for him. I went and bought all the fertilizers and mixed most of it myself. Dad put the boxes together and we filled them. We now have spinach, strawberries, onions, and garlic planted. I am so excited about the garden. We will have garden benches in it as you can see by the pictures. We are still getting things organized for it. I hope for a good harvest and we will be planting more later.

If you live in Utah, this may be helpful. It is a planting guide Grandpa Bond found in the newspaper.

The KSL Radio Greenhouse Show with Larry Sagers airs each Saturday from 8am-11am. Call 801-575-8255 with your gardening questions.

Hardy Vegetables
Plant: March 14-May 1

Semi-hardy vegetables
Plant: tow weeks after hardy to mid-May

Tender Vegetables
Plant: May 1
Summer Squash

Very Tender vegetables
Plant: May 20 to June 10
Winter Squash

Hope this helps.